Why?
Chronicles of Failure

Why?

I'm sitting in an undisclosed location in the desert. I have a lot of time to think. We get a lot of emails asking what program is best for an individual. Those questions made me realize that a l...

AdventureFailing to Prepare is Preparing to Fail: Life Advice From A Guy Who Knows

Failing to Prepare is Preparing to Fail: Life Advice From A Guy Who Knows

A discussion in the SOFLETE Team Room got me thinking about all the stupid things I’ve done that could have shortened my stay on this earth. Sometimes those things were necessary or at least unavoi...

Chronicles of FailureToxic Positivity: The Dangers Of "Nice Effort" Culture

Toxic Positivity: The Dangers Of "Nice Effort" Culture

There is solitude in failure. But how a man reacts to that loneliness—despite being surrounded by friends—determines whether he grows or continues to spiral downward.

Chronicles of FailureThe Secret To Success: Embracing Failure

The Secret To Success: Embracing Failure

Failure is a perception; we define our own end state. We all will be well served to remember that a single defeat or a series of defeats is not a lost cause.  

Chronicles of FailureFailing Forward, And Other Positive Consequences Of Not Quite Winning

Failing Forward, And Other Positive Consequences Of Not Quite Winning

“There are two kinds of Marines in Recon,” a friend said, “Swim Team members and Barfighters. You my friend, are a Barfighter.” I looked back quizzically. He continued. “Swim Team guys are tan, th...

Chronicles of FailureWhy The #1 Rule At SOFLETE Should Be Your Number 1 Rule In Life

Why The #1 Rule At SOFLETE Should Be Your Number 1 Rule In Life

One of the common traits we see from people of all walks of life, career paths, and ages is that at a certain level of experience you're able to look back and see one or two defining moments and p...